Your view on yourself:
You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.
is this really me? at times i think so. mmm..effcient problem solver? i wish i can be stronger and not be too 'switzerland'.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You are a true romantic. When you are in love, you will do anything and everything to keep your love true.
i think this sounds nice. ideally, i think i am as such. however, i have not been in a relationship thus my theory still stands till now. colleague getting married and they are so interested in my mindset of marriage as i really thought of getting married - at this age. they say it's normal. as years whizzed by, it will be a different story. how true? i dunno. all i know is that i don't know whether love and marriage are fated - what is meant to be is meant to be. my classmate told me that i will meet my one and only and get married. this means that i will meet him and married.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
hey, this is kinda common sense, isn't it?! for the latter, it is really a war between your heart and head. vexing, isn't it? this is especially when you know that you deserved better but cannot let go. maybe i gave the impression i am experience and know a lot but that is really on one's opinion and what the heart says.
The seriousness of your love:Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.
i dunno if i am straightforward. mm..maybe at times depending on the situation and the people i meet. i know that i usually bring ease to people unless otherwise. too bad, i cannot change their initial reaction and acceptance.
Your views on education:
Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.
excellent. this is damn true. others may think that this is a politically right answer but i truly think that education can bring you farther - if you bother to apply it in networking, work, cracking up jokes, conversation, etc. i love general knowledge.
The right job for you:
You have many goals and want to achieve as much as you can. The jobs you enjoy are those that let you burn off your considerable excess energy.
another point hit! many goals i have and want to achieve but i cannot even realise a resolution. oxymoron. i agreed that jobs enjoyed will make one expend their time and effort because they will not be bothered with the minute stuff, hassle and monies. serious. i have been through that. wait! maybe i am a novice in the society so that is why i felt this way. wish me all the best when i am going to cut all bridges. this is why i need the courage to do so.
How do you view success:
You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.
i want to look for this fella who compute the above statement. he/she spelled out my CURRENT thoughts that have been bothering me since january 2008. torment it is but due to the comfort zone that i have been in for the past 2.5 years, i lacked the foresight, courage, desire to step out and give this career a try for the next 6 months. excuses masked my first significant step which i should not regret and worked for it. see the word 'EXCUSES'? we are very good at it because we do not want to bear the responsibilty, mistake and not in phase with the 'clique'. if i gonna send in my resignation letter, should i give excuses again? this is seething in me and i do not know the answer. i am a timid person and a scaredy cat. back to the goal (which i have not even listed earlier): i want to be financially free by the age of 30.
What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of things that you cannot control. Sometimes you show your anger to cover up how you feel.
this one. most afraid of not having a smooth-sailing life. that is an ideal actually. afraid that i will get cheated. afraid that i will not be able to get on in life if i meet with (one) obstacle. afraid = pessimistic = depression. well, no use brooding too much. gotta change yourself to make the first step. at least i am not bothered by 儿女私情
Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.
period. this is true enough if my family and friends think that i am described (deserved) as above.
i was browsing through the favourites and saw this website. maybe my sis was doing her usual browse. never did i think that i will do this quiz which was purely out if fun and turns out that it added colour to my blog. today, only today do i have the impulse to blog as i am so vexed. i really want to share with my family on my new career but i can foresee that it is not going to garner much support coupled with the pessimistic economy. mum has been reminding me that jobs are hard to find and may even face retrenchment....
i really wish to think myself as a final year university student starting to look for a job and the first job happen to be one which i can try it out and see if it works since i have the interest. moreover i do not have to worry about financial responsibility. *laughs* my family environment, the environment which builds my personality, thinking, values have impeded. adults have seen the world much more than me and share with the younger generation so that they will not walk the wrong route, roundabout and when they finally reach their destination, lotsa missed opportunities along the way.
it really cringed to hear that the choice is yours to make, create and behold. you are responsible for your own life and future but looking at the external factors, emotions and sub-conscious thoughts - can i do it?
i really wish to realise my number 1 resolution made in january 2008 within the next 3 months.
wish me all the best (suddenly, the word 'RESISTANCE' flashed through my mind, is this an omen?)
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